You know what? i don't care how much of an ass he was. It was my issue for dating him, which i did though i didn't like him as much as he liked me. then, when i found out(rather quickly) that he liked me so much because he thought that my lame social standing andpossible insecurities plus my semi atractive bod meant that he would (eventually) get some hot lovin, i dumped him, not so much because i have a problem with that, but because he was wrong. My insecureties don't lend HIM any leverage, and i don't care enough about my social standing to date him any longer than i feel like. But the good news is that i got through that cycle in a month! Now i'm all alone! fun!